Mind Boggling Issues
Tuesday, November 23, 2004 2:39 AM

For some reasons, guys are never really contented with what they've already got. I wonder why. I mean... I'm not saying that all are guys are like that, but I've looked and I've realized that there are the majority who take love and concern for granted. Whether it's from their parents, their dearest or their closest.

Let the lead character of this short very educational case study, A.
Let A's devoted girlfriend be B.
Let some girl A meets on his Holiday Trip be C.

Now... B is constantly pining for A while he is away on his holiday trip. She is lonely and incessantly screams out in her blog about being lonely. Now... A is away on his trip, meets C on tour and dreams about C all the time. C is now the girl of his dreams. He keeps psyching himself to think that when he wanted to take C's number, it was not for anything other than being 'just friends'.

B counts down to the time A touches Singaporean soil and decides to let him have a few minutes grace before she called him. She then gave him a call and found that his phone was not switched on. Poor B just brushes it aside. Awhile later, A returns B's call but sounds nonchalent and cold.

B is heartbroken.

So while B dreamt about A's return day in and out. B dreamt about C. And while C is never to be contacted again, B will be there for him because she loves him.

Lustful behaviour lah.

Get my drift? Guys are never contented. I cluck my tongue (although I can't seem to do that well) at A. It's irksome to think that fickleness is unavoidable. =X So we blame this on human nature. BAH. Human nature my foot. Alot of girls can only wait in the corners of their rooms for their bf and pine away for them. But guys? What do that do? Probably out jioing girls, taking their numbers and saying, "just make friends only what."

I absolutely cannot stand fickleness. =C Because although I am indecisive (which is like one of my huge flaws), I'm not fickle. Thin line, but yet, different all the same.

I pity B... Bah... Guys... Are they all like that?

I don't see the horrible-incorrigible-veggietableness in looking at other girls and maybe thinking they are pretty, but the moment you start dreaming of her day in and out... That's the limit.

Guys... When that day comes, I bet you that the moment the girl you dream of, you'll just dump your girl (if you're not haunted by guilt lah) for that third party if you knew she was available and likes you too. If you don't dump that girl... It means... Aiyo... The girl poor thing. You'll probably give her hell with that coldness in your voice. Guys. Guys. Guys. You never learn do you...

I don't mean to say that girls are not like that too, but guys, a bulk of such horrible sad broken stories come from you... For girls ah... I don't deny the existence of fickle girls, but heck, seldom lah.

=X Yes. And that is the moral of the story for today's rather long winded mind boggling installment of Auntie Carrie nags somemore and bites off alot of guilty heads. The moment you feel angry with me on this, you most probably have some major guilt issues.

**carrie** loves wei sheng






Save the pandas! Huge goo goo eyes! Filler bunny!
This blog contains the memories of two people who hated each other at first, managed to get to know each other anyway, got attached for a year plus and then decided to break up. They are very different people especially in personality and even though they love(ed) each other very much, there are some things that because of love, you have to let go. Just happened that it would have to be this relationship. They now remain very very good friends. (Time will tell if this sentence actually holds.)
3rd October 2004 - 20th January 2006



His Wishlist
Whiteboard
Plug-in Acoustic
More Polo-tees
some amazing sound system in my room
more time
large bed
large room
win lottery
basically everything else


Her Wishlist




fellow bloggers Ada  Aletheia
Allison  Amy  Belle  Bryan
B.O.A  Calvin Kor  Cherlyn
Darryl  Emelia  Eng Kiat
Fangzheng  Gimmy  Ginger
Havardz  Huixin  Iffah
Iris  Jean  Jenny Wa Wa
Jerrrm  Jesster  Jill  Jing Ying
Jjoycee  Joanne  Joycelyn
Juliano  Kenneth  Natasha
Nat Yu  NC(Enci)  Peirong
PN  Sebastian  Sharudin
Shereen  Stephie  Miss Chia
Wei Ling  Vicnan  Wei Nan
Wei Qiang  Timo  Clarence
Vane  FIONA  Zero Infinity 
Sutrisno  Hanafie  Yu Ling
Derek C.  Soedar  Islin
Amos  Iris L.  Baby Nat
Yi Wen  Davis  Bra Bra
Calvin  Rachel  Heyang
Daniella  Dearie 

lots of photos (by album)
one 24.04.2004
Last Day Chaos
Rabbits Expedition
The Messy Stuff
Stephy Fever
08.05.2004
Racial Harmony Day

two Airport Study Trip
Braveheart Challenge-Race
Braveheart Challenge-Community
Class Photo
08.09.2004
10.09.2004
12.11.2004 ZI Jamming Session
Braveheart Challenge-Sales

three Dearie's B'day
28.09.2004 Zhong Qiu Jie
Darryl's B'day Surprise
Eardrum Damage
CGSS Band Concert
18.11.2004/19.11.2004
23.11.2004 East Coast
Hum tum Bolah!

four ZI Pre-Prom
Nov 26 48.4 Outdoor Rec
Shopping Trip
Nov 29 Sentosa Trip
Zero Infinity Live Gig
Kite Flying Episode
Christmas Party
48.4 Dec Outdoor Rec
Dearie's Dream Car

five Kite Flying Episode 2
29.12.2004 Pre Rec
Siloso Beach Sentosa Trip
Jazz @ Sentosa
Mother-Daughter Bonding
Freedom Gig '05
JUNE 19 Outdoor Rec
ZI BEACH SHOTS
School Of Rock '05 Semi Finals

six Racial Harmony Day '05
School of Rock FINALS'05
Visit to Siu Lun's House
Lillies On The River'05 Pt 1

seven Lillies On The River Pt 2
Zhong Qiu Jie '05
National Day @ Tamp
National Day'05
Dearie And MEH!
Saturation Point
Carrie in Patriotic Red

external 3B End-Year BBQ
4B March BBQ
Siu Lun Chill Out Treat
Weird Class Pics


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