a nightmare would be a life without you

Bored like a "lao hong" bag of Chips
Monday, December 27, 2004 3:55 PM

And because I'm so bored like a "lao hong" bag of potato chips, I decided to go ahead with this not-very-interesting 'survey' (in which I have to answer in the shoes of my dearie or whatever I think I know about him)before I go decorate Christmas trees in Maple Story. Buwahahaha. Seriously, there's something very wrong going on up there in my little brain. Wait a minute... There's a server check going on, so this survey will go on for a rather long time. I am utterly bored. UTTERLY.

basics.

Full name: Tan Wei Sheng
Nickname: Ben, I think, although I never ever call him that. That's what most of his friends call him. And er... the more interesting one which he ever told me about would be "Wei Sheng Zhi" a.k.a Toilet paper. Haha. I never call him that too. Basically I just call him Wei Sheng, or dearie. Does dearie count as a nickname?
Birthdate: Buwahahaha. I definitely score this one. 14 November 1988.
Age: 16 and growing... ...
Grade: Post O'level Student. Heheh.

favourites.

Hobby: Should be gaming lah. He's very pro at one shooting arcade game... Yah... Playing his guitar. Jamming with his band, hanging out with his friends. Watching CSI and stuff like that. =D Er... Yeah.
Sport: It should be ... ... *groans* swimming. Since he's always trying to get me to go there. And he's always visiting Island paradise Sentosa... So... I'm not sure lah!
Food: Hokkien Mee! Without the prawn and sotong because he's allergic to seafood. I bet it's Hokkien Mee lor! He always eats that. And cold food! And well... Char Siew! I know he likes Char Siew.
Drink: Sprite Ice? (He keeps drinking that mar!)
Music: Giveaway question. Another one to get marks! Pure rock! No mixed up nonsense like Busted or what-not. Just good ol' rock like simple plan, linkin park... Please say I got this right!
Song: He doesn't have one. =) I know this. Haha. Asked him the other day. He doesn't seem to have any specific favourite.
Movie: *crosses fingers* Ocean's Eleven?
TV Show: Woo hoo... Something I should know. CSI, CSI MIAMI, THE OC, SURVIVOR. Did I miss anything?
Phrase: He kinda says everything. Got phrase meh? Haha... If there's a sure thing he's gonna say it must be "Tired ah?" (That's actually very sweet of him!!!)
Place: Anywhere with loads of coconut trees! Hehehh!
Ice Cream: Er... Probably Chocolate Chip cos' we always get that from those push cart ice cream vendors. Yeah. The huge block kind that comes sandwiched between crispy waffers!

More about him.

What's his best attribute?
He's got quite a few. Most of the attributes he's got, I don't. He has whatever I lack sorely. Mainly he's very tactfully sensitive and considerate. He always knows what to say in any situation. =) Just so sweet lor. Awwiex. Melts me to bits he does.

His worst?
I won't say he's always late because I'm always late. But here's one thing- he's sometimes overly sensitive. It's either that or I'm too insensitive. Maybe I am but... He kinda takes alot of things I say too seriously. Not a bad thing all the time, but it can get a bit difficult for me because I have to start thinking very hard if what I'm gonna say gets misunderstood. =X It's quite ironic that I like his sensitive nature and at the same time it's a boo boo. Haha. The irony of life.

How does he dress?
Usually rather casually. Unless he wants to be a vampire in on one of those very weird days and he dresses more formally than I ever would. Haha. Yeah. The latino vampire moods.

How does he do his hair?
He uses more goo than I have ever seen in my life and he probably spends more time doing up his hair than showering! Haha. =D He usually thinks it's better off goo'ed down, but I like him to goo his hair up. Whatever it is he's super cute whether he does his hair or not.

Is he nice?
Yeah lah. He's a much nicer person than me lah. Haha. I'm a meanie!

Is he shy?
I have frankly never seen him shy IN MY LIFE!

Is he a good kisser?
Yup. *shy*

Does he smoke/take drugs?
Freaking hell if he does. I'd probably get VERY mad at him. GAH!

Does he care for me?
Alot of people say he does. And I agree. He's the first guy I've met who cares for me more than his own face lor. =) I love him very much for that... ...

Does he get jealous if you go out with other guys?
Er. I don't think so?! I have never seen him jealous as of yet.

Does he go out with other girls?
Sure one lah. Haha. He's a freaking shuai ge! Definitely he'll go out with other girls and hang out with them to chill and stuff.

Does he cook?
I think so. Heheh.

Does he know how to treat a woman right?
Yeah lah. He does.

the beginning.

How did you meet?
Possibly online although I don't remember much and I have no trusty chat logs to refer to. =X Hmmx... And er... I don't seem to remember talking to him much and I can't remember WHY I even introduced him into 48.4FM, which is the online radio station I am in to him. After that we chat occasionally online. I usually just rant to him about everything. Gah. And er. Yeah. Literally meeting him would be during some 48.4FM chill out meeting. First time I met him was at that Cine Pool place.

How long have you known each other?
I think I knew him for like a year or so? But I didn't really get to know him until like couple of months back. So if that's the case, I've only REALLY known him for a short half a year.

How long have you been together?
About two months plus lah. Since like 3 October this year.

How did you get together?
Er... He sent me home one day after we were out at Orchard and I gave him the I do through SMS during our post-outing sms greetings. And I kinda said 'I do' because it's utterly touching to have someone carry you on piggy back through high tide in Sentosa sea water when he's already cut and bleeding. Sounds very cliche but it happened that way. It was very sweet.

What drew you to him?
Everything? Most probably because he is everything I'm not and trying to be. It's complicated. But that's about it, simplified.

Where was your first date?
Good, very good question. =X Because I can't really remember. Probably Orchard! Or Esplanade or something like that. I need to check my diary. =P

When did you first say I LOVE YOU?
Er... I CANNOT REMEMBER... Failing memory... FAILING MEMORY. Oh no... ...

random questions.

How often do you see each other?
Almost everyday leh. At least for now. Haha. =D I'm such a blissful girl! Xin fu, xin fu, xin fu!

Do you have anything in common?
Good question... ER... Don't think so. Er.. We're both Chinese? And Teochew? But he's part Hokkien lah... I'm just teochew through and through. Hmmx. Like I said before, he's got every attribute I SORELY lack. Heheh.

What do you do together?
Anything that my puny indecisive brain and his decisive brain can churn out. Like flying kites, or watching movies, walking aimlessly around in Sentosa. Stuff like that.

What do your friends think of him?
They think he's shuai. Haha. I infer this from this sentence, "Carrie your taste has improved leh. Got standard ah! But hor... Why you always go for the beardy ones?"

Do you get on with his friends?
Eh... I don't think they hate me lah. =D

Do you think he would ever cheat on you?
Nope. He's so sweet and everything, won't one lah!

Do people say you look good together?
My friends think we're very 'compatible' and that we look alike. Which I don't know is a compliment or not. My mom thinks otherwise, but then again. I don't know.

Have you met his parents? Do they like you?
Not yet. But I bet they'll NOT hate me. =D I'm quite likeable what! But I heard his mother doesn't really er... prefer girls younger than him. *gasp!* I think his dad doesn't really mind or care. Haha.

Has he met your parents? Do they like him?
Not yet too. But my mom is thinking he's a nice guy. My dad on the other hand needs a little convincing. =X

Do your parents/friends take your relationship seriously?
My parents not so. They think it's a 'phase'. Oh well. My friends do lah. Quite.

Do YOU take your relationship seriously?
Seriously in my case would mean, I would definitely think it's gonna be long lasting. So. Yeah. Seriously.

How would you describe your relationship?
Rather mismatched yet complimentary, loving, fun, crazy, argumentative. Aiya. Hahaha.

What's the best gift you've recieved from him?
Heheh. His heart. ^_^ Lolx. And if you mean something you can literally touch, it would have to be this year's christmas gift. HE MADE ME A FRIENDSHIP BRACELET WITH OUR NAMES ON IT...! So sweet lor. I melted leh. Although I didn't really show that much.

Do you guys have a song?
Loads lah. Always dedicate alot of songs on air during our show. Haha. Like 98 degrees and Robbie Williams and Obviously by McFly! Gahahaha.

Have you two ever.

Taken a trip together?
Does Sentosa count? Haha.

Celebrated a holiday together?
Christmas!!! Haha.

Seen each other cry?
I haven't seen him cry, and he probably has never seen me cry. =)

Argued/Fought?
We like argue ALOT. Heheh. A nicer word would be squabble, but it usually works out.

Broken Up?
Two months plus only lor! Wah. *choy* Haha!

future.

Do you think of marrying him?
Recently, yes. Haha. =) And I think of him in a suit and me in a gown and it looks strange but its kinda sweet to think about it. Lolx. And I think of the eleven kids we're gonna have and it feels sweeter. Like sugar on ice cream!

Has he ever mentioned marriage to you?
Haha. The hottest topic we talk about is having lots of kids. All eleven of them. So definitely he as mentioned it.

Do you want to marry him?
LIKE DUH. Hahah.

Can you see yourself having kids with him?
YESH. Haha. Eleven Tan Shi Yi, Ten Tan Shi, Nine Tan Jiu, Eight Tan Ba (wahaha! Poor kid!), Seven Tan Qi, Six Tan Liu, Five Tan Wu, Four Tan Si, Three Tan San, Two Tan Er, and One Tan Yi. Heheh. Cute names lah.

Would he make a great father?
Hahaha. YESHH! He totally has THAT 'uncle' look. WOAH. He'd make the best dad in the world lor. I just know it. Haha.

How long do you think your relationship will last?
As long as we both can stand each other which will be quite some time since we both don't show much sign of taking things to heart. Mainly it depends on how much of me he can take. Heheh. If he can take all of me, woah, easy lah. How long? FOREVER. =D Cliche as it sounds... ...

complete the following.

I love it when he ..
gives in to me when I cannot 'xia de liow tai' (get down from the stage). =) And when he gives me hugs cos I'm too shy and conservative to hug him first. And when he reassures me about stuff. Heh.

When we're apart ..
miss him to bits and think about him. =)

I can't stand the thought of ..
Us EVERY having a permanent silent war. Hope it never happens ah!

I'm really hoping that ..
It's really for forever. And that we CAN make eleven kids come true. Haha.

With him ..
I feel like a squabbling loving grandmother. Woo hoo. Haha.

I just want him to know ..
That I don't really express how much I love him and it probably seems like I can't be bothered with expressing that I really love him and care for him but heck I do lah. Haha. =) Working on it. See the survey. That's step one. Wouldn't spend half a century answering this if I didn't love youuuuu deariiiee! Heh. MuackxX! Love you!

**carrie** (luuurrvvvvvveeesssss Wei Sheng to itty bitty bits.)